It’s one of those times when I am realising how much some people suffer and how good my life is in comparison.
Looking outside my own bubble, I see that there are kids growing up with alcoholic parents who abuse them. There are kids who don’t have any parents at all and have to try to navigate life on their own, getting tangled up in their mistakes. There are kids who wish they had a ‘normal’ life but what is normal?
My life isn’t normal. It’s probably the nearest to the way that God created it to be, but that is rare these days. I have a loving mother and father, sisters and brother. I don’t struggle financially. I don’t go searching for love. My room is crammed with clothes, books, CDs and presents from other people who care about me.
This is not normal. If normal is:”conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected”, my life is not normal.
I often have bouts of guilt. I wonder why I am so blessed and happy, while so many around me suffer. Then I realise that if everyone was like that, there would be no one to help them. If everyone falls down the mud-hole, there has to be at least one person standing up the top, lowering down the rope to help them back up. If everyone was in darkness, there would be no light.
Those of us, who are blessed enough to know Jesus’ love and peace are called to be the light of the world (Matthew 5:14).
So if you feel discouraged because so many around you are flailing through life, don’t be downhearted. Take the opportunity to praise God for sparing you that pain. Don’t gloat. It is by God’s grace that we have been saved. Use your position to help others. With great gifts, comes great responsibility.
The beautiful thing about this is that through us, others will also be brought into the light of Jesus. If we are doing our job properly, lighting the way, God can use us to rescue others. We are instruments of God’s love.
Now THAT is exciting, not only for us, but also for those who are awaiting our help.
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.”
-2 Corinthians 1:3-5


